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Ask Mistress Victoria - Peggy's Problems with Pegging

How to make pegging fun for the budding Fem-Domme

Dear Mistress Victoria,

I love my partner and our play time is always full of fun and adventure. We are both always up for trying something new and recently we've gotten into pegging on his request. He's of course over the moon with me bending him over and taking control with my strap on dildo but if I'm completely honest... I get a little bored during the act!

PeggingSure I get off on the domination aspect but while I'm thrusting away but I'm just not getting any physical pleasure. I'm also unsure about how long I should make it last. It's not as if I'm going to ejaculate any time soon! I'm just looking for a polite way (for lack of a better term) to finish up a session of pegging and move on to something else. Please help me!

Signed
Peggy

Politely? Peggy my dear you're wearing a strap on harness with a dildo inserted in someone's backside! Not to worry Mistress Victoria is here to help. First off, let's go over some clever ways to get a little pleasure while you're pegging your partner.

Before you begin, try inserting a set of ben-wa balls into your vagina, the thrusting motion will have the interior weights inside moving about like mad, stimulating the inside of your vagina. It's sure to put a smile on your face! I'm a personal fan of the Vibe Therapy Fascinate Silicone Duo Balls available from Passion8.

You can also try slipping a bullet vibrator in your knickers or find a strap on harness with a bullet vibrator holster like the Bend Over Beginner Kit by Tantus. The rhythmic pressure and vibrations against your clitoris may have you banging away with great fervor! You may not have the show stopping ejaculation signalling the end of the session you mentioned but you may have an orgasm nonetheless.

As far as a way naturally finish the scene and move on, don’t forget who’s in charge! He’s most likely looking for a true to life Fem-Domme experience if he’s begging for a pegging. It’s up to you to say when the scene ends! If you're really that bored but still want to be a good sport then maybe find a way to subtly time your sessions. Plan ahead and decide just how long you plan on pounding away on your partner's posterior.

If you've got him bent over and facing away from you, you can sneak peeks at your watch. If he's on his back, sneak peeks at a wall clock, appliance, phone... etc. when the time is nearing the end, start thrusting faster, harder and mimic a male orgasm. Being subtle is the key here. Then of course you can finish things off by giving him a slap on the bum and tell him you're done with him.

Are you looking for advice on your BDSM relationship? Have a question on a certain aspect of bondage or domination? Ask Mistress Victoria all of your challenging bondage questions for candid, honest advice and sincere input. If she doesn't have the answer, she will search high and low for a professional opinion.
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