1. the state or quality of being chaste
2. not having sex, or only having a sexual relationship with the person whom are you married to
To most people, chastity in the modern 21st Century seems like a bit of an archaic idea. Why would anyone in their right mind want to strap down and lock up their genitals?! Before you choke on your cornflakes at the idea, let us explain a few common True and Falsie facts about chastity. You might just change your mind!
- Chastity makes sex better
TRUE! Ever heard of the saying, 'good things come to those who wait'? Yes, it's also true that your manhood is under lock and key and no, you won't be able to masturbate and it's hard to gain an erection. But your partner isn't going to lock your penis away for all of eternity; we're only talking about a few days abstinence here! Just think, if you have had no 'release', all of that testosterone, ejaculate and hours thinking about an orgasm is building up and up until your keyholder finally unlocks you. She's raring to go because you haven't been pestering her every night, and you're as horny as a bull. The result? Best sex of your life! It really is that simple.
- Chastity is just for religious people
FALSE! Chastity devices were designed in the 14th century and were largely used by people wanting to protect their 'virtue'. In other words, men attached them onto their daughters, mistresses and wives (probably in that order!) to prohibit them from having sex freely with whomever they choose. Religion only comes into play when thinking about abstinence from pre-marital sex, and even so, not every religious person has a CB6000. Chastity is now commonly used in consensual relationships and in BDSM play as a way to surrender control over their sexual behaviour or to prevent infidelity and masturbation.
- Chastity devices are heavy and impossible to wear
FALSE! The original designs of chastity devices were worn as belts (chastity belts) and were made from heavy and uncomfortable welded iron or steel. Thankfully, times have changed! Our huge selection of chastity devices at UberKinky are either a traditional-style metal device, or the best selling and super comfortable CB range. We cater for women too, so you and your partner can both gain the benefits from chastity. You know what they say, the couple that plays together, stays together!
- Chastity will just make me sexually frustrated
FALSE! If anything, wearing a chastity device will do quite the opposite. In masturbating every day/several times a day, and having sex on tap, you lose the potency of your orgasm. Many men find the experience becoming less and less pleasurable, resulting in a habitual and joyless compulsion. Chastity however, makes you value your orgasms, by having some control over your urges you are reclaiming the power of your sexual experiences. Additionally, orgasm denial and the knowledge that your sexual control is in the hands of your partner can be very arousing for you and your key holder.
- Chastity will improve the quality of my relationship
TRUE! Chastity play can restore intimacy and trust between many couples, particularly in relationships where there has been infidelity, or where the male frequently relies on porn and masturbation as opposed to sex; chastity is a great way to reassure her and to enhance the relationship. Another way chastity can really improve the quality your relationship is through the waiting and anticipation involved. We hear a lot of men saying they want more sex and wish their partners would instigate more often- or in some cases, ever! A man who is constantly asking for sex can feel doubtful and self-conscious about her desire for him; is she agreeing to sex because she wants to, is she agreeing to sex because she feels she has to? When a man wears his chastity device, he is giving his partner total control and ownership of his penis, she holds the key, both literally and metaphorically and the dynamics that this creates between the partners can be electric.